英語
Boyfriend Guda, just met Guda, they are broken by these method.
Almost all women dislike it for the same reason.
When you ask a girl to have sex, the content of complaints and objections is same to some extent. Therefore, it is easier to break through if you prevent what can be prevented in advance.
If you forget to take preventive measures, you can do something with Guda-kuzushi(to break down complaints and objections), but if you can do something with that, it's often better to take preventive measures in advance to have sex earlier. I will explain with examples.
"Boyfriend is someone to enrich the life of you, it is meaningless if the boyfriend limits your own possibility or something."
"She used to tell me if I could cheat on her, she didn't want to find out. Do you know the psychology of girls like this?"
"Do you know the psychology of women who have affairs? I think it's good to be able to rediscover the value of your boyfriend by having an affair. You never know unless you try."
Of course, before complaints and objections happens, it's a good idea to uncover episodes of a girl having an affair in the past and her episodes of "guilt arousing excitement" when having a boyfriend.
If we have a lot of love experiences, we can tell how wonderful it is to have another sex even when we have a person who is dating with. So it is advantageous.
Break down complaints and objections. She rejoined
that "You are not my boyfriend.", "I don't want to do it if you are not my boyfriend!"
"It's important to experience something new."
"You can do it if you try!"
"What do you think of becoming a boyfriend for sex? You feel that it must be lonely."
"Think that it's strength to be free from common sense and follow your honest feelings."
"You are a person who doesn't believe what others say without any reason."
Abandon the fixed idea that it is impossible because I have a boyfriend.
You don't have to think bearish like "I can't do it "Immediately" because she have a boyfriend."
If you can take her out even though she has a boyfriend, she thinks that she can play with you. And these women sometimes don't get along with their boyfriends. She's a flirtatious woman.
It's a cardinal rule not to speak ill of her boyfriend.
If the woman you took out doesn't get along with her boyfriend, she may complain about her boyfriend. You don't have to chime in, but you cannot say bad things about her boyfriend. She went out with her boyfriend because she liked him, so she chose by herself. She doesn't feel good when someone complains about her favorite boyfriend. It also denies the woman's choice. she doesn't feel good either.
There are women who can cheat without hesitation even if they have boyfriends, who often like drinking a lot. In that case, there are few "I can't because I have a boyfriend" complaint in the process of bringing them "Immediately".
Because she has a boyfriend, we don't care about it. It doesn't matter whether she has a boyfriend or not.
When you take them out, if they say "I have a boyfriend." Let's say, "I just want to be friends" ,"I just want to drink for five minutes" or "It doesn't matter if you have a boyfriend." and take her out.
Breaking Girls' Complaints and Objections1
Boyfriend Guda, just met Guda, they are broken by these method.
When you approach women, I think you are refused or disliked by them "in a ritual way" in many cases.
Guda-prevention is to prevent it before it is actually occured. Or, to break down these complaints and objections by refuting them with a talk.
It may sound like a refutation, but in many cases, it is better to aim for the direction of moderating women to work positively on the side of pick-up artists.
From a general point of view, it is against common sense to go to a hotel on the first day of meeting, or to have sex even if she has a boyfriend. And your approach is that you tell her that it is common sense to bring up examples where such things go through in common sense, or to carry on things while skillfully stressing and mistakenly asserting or remaining uncertain that there are no negative factors that a girl thinks of based on her and our past partners or examples ・・・.
Guda-prevention is to prevent it before it is actually occured. Or, to break down these complaints and objections by refuting them with a talk.
It may sound like a refutation, but in many cases, it is better to aim for the direction of moderating women to work positively on the side of pick-up artists.
From a general point of view, it is against common sense to go to a hotel on the first day of meeting, or to have sex even if she has a boyfriend. And your approach is that you tell her that it is common sense to bring up examples where such things go through in common sense, or to carry on things while skillfully stressing and mistakenly asserting or remaining uncertain that there are no negative factors that a girl thinks of based on her and our past partners or examples ・・・.
Almost all women dislike it for the same reason.
When you ask a girl to have sex, the content of complaints and objections is same to some extent. Therefore, it is easier to break through if you prevent what can be prevented in advance.
If you forget to take preventive measures, you can do something with Guda-kuzushi(to break down complaints and objections), but if you can do something with that, it's often better to take preventive measures in advance to have sex earlier. I will explain with examples.
Break down complaints and objections of boyfriend reason
It is a talk to prevent "I have a boyfriend!" objection. In fact, in order to make it more realistic, I will make a good presentation by emphasizing the parts that might resonate with the women and asking them questions.
It's in the direction of presenting values. "You may see it that way now, but there is also this view." is the basic flow.
It is a talk to prevent "I have a boyfriend!" objection. In fact, in order to make it more realistic, I will make a good presentation by emphasizing the parts that might resonate with the women and asking them questions.
It's in the direction of presenting values. "You may see it that way now, but there is also this view." is the basic flow.
"Boyfriend is someone to enrich the life of you, it is meaningless if the boyfriend limits your own possibility or something."
"She used to tell me if I could cheat on her, she didn't want to find out. Do you know the psychology of girls like this?"
"Do you know the psychology of women who have affairs? I think it's good to be able to rediscover the value of your boyfriend by having an affair. You never know unless you try."
Of course, before complaints and objections happens, it's a good idea to uncover episodes of a girl having an affair in the past and her episodes of "guilt arousing excitement" when having a boyfriend.
If we have a lot of love experiences, we can tell how wonderful it is to have another sex even when we have a person who is dating with. So it is advantageous.
Break down complaints and objections. She rejoined
that "You are not my boyfriend.", "I don't want to do it if you are not my boyfriend!"
It is a talk to prevent you from something like that. It's okay to say "Then I will be your boyfriend from today." lightly. Dating is just a verbal promise, and there are no legal restrictions, so it will be over when the one side wants to leave.
"It's important to experience something new."
"You can do it if you try!"
"What do you think of becoming a boyfriend for sex? You feel that it must be lonely."
"Think that it's strength to be free from common sense and follow your honest feelings."
"You are a person who doesn't believe what others say without any reason."
Abandon the fixed idea that it is impossible because I have a boyfriend.
You don't have to think bearish like "I can't do it "Immediately" because she have a boyfriend."
If you can take her out even though she has a boyfriend, she thinks that she can play with you. And these women sometimes don't get along with their boyfriends. She's a flirtatious woman.
It's a cardinal rule not to speak ill of her boyfriend.
If the woman you took out doesn't get along with her boyfriend, she may complain about her boyfriend. You don't have to chime in, but you cannot say bad things about her boyfriend. She went out with her boyfriend because she liked him, so she chose by herself. She doesn't feel good when someone complains about her favorite boyfriend. It also denies the woman's choice. she doesn't feel good either.
There are women who can cheat without hesitation even if they have boyfriends, who often like drinking a lot. In that case, there are few "I can't because I have a boyfriend" complaint in the process of bringing them "Immediately".
Officially, there is a possibility of that , but let's break it down by saying, "There is no problem if it is not revealed" or "Life needs spice...".
Women who like alcohol often cheat even if they have boyfriends. I think there is a tendency. Because alcohol makes us feel bigger and less guilty. Even if she has a boyfriend, she doesn't have to worry about it.
Because she has a boyfriend, we don't care about it. It doesn't matter whether she has a boyfriend or not.
When you take them out, if they say "I have a boyfriend." Let's say, "I just want to be friends" ,"I just want to drink for five minutes" or "It doesn't matter if you have a boyfriend." and take her out.
日本語
彼氏いるグダ、会ったばかりでしょグダ、場所グダなどを崩す
女性に接近するようにすると、断られるケース・嫌がられるケースがあると思う。
実際に嫌がられる前に予防していくのがグダ予防、それをトークで論破していくのがグダ崩しだ。
論破というふうに聞こえるかもしれないが、女性を穏健に手懐ける方向を目指して、PUAの側で積極的に働くようにした方がいい。それが、PUAの側にとってポジティブに働くケースが多い。
一般的に言って、初対面の日にホテルに行ったり、ボーイフレンドがいてもセックスをするのは常識ではない。そして、あなたのアプローチは、そういうことが常識として通用するような例を挙げて、常識だと彼女に伝えることだ。
あるいは、巧みに強調し、間違ったかのように主張したり、確信できないままにしたりして、女の子が彼女や私たちの過去のパートナーや例から考えるに、否定的な要素がなく、物事を続けるのが常識だと言うことで物事を進めることだ。
ほとんどの女性は同じ理由で嫌がる。
女の子にセックスをお願いする場合、クレームや異議の内容はある程度同じだ。ですから、事前に防げることを防げば、突破しやすくなる。
予防策を忘れた場合は、グダ崩し(苦情や異議を解決する)で対処することもできるが、それが可能であるならば、早めにセックスをするために予防策を取っておいた方が良い場合も多い。例を挙げて説明しよう。
ボーイフレンドが理由の不満や反対を解消する
「彼氏がいるの!」の反対を防ぐための話。実際、より現実的にするために、女性に共感してもらえる部分を強調して質問し、良いプレゼンをする。それは価値を提示する方向にある。基本的な流れとしては「君には今はそう見えるかもしれないが、こういう見方もある」だ。
「彼氏はあなたの人生を豊かにする人のはずなので、彼氏で自分の可能性を制限しても意味がないよね。」
「彼女は私が浮気をした場合、知りたくないからと言っていた。このような女の子の心理はわかる?」
「浮気をする女性の心理を知ってる?浮気をして、相手の価値を再発見できるのはいいことだと思う。やってみないとわからないし。」
もちろん、不満や異議が出てくる前に、過去に浮気をした女の子のエピソードや、彼氏がいるときの「興奮を引き起こす罪悪感」のエピソードなどを明らかにしておくといいだろう。
恋愛経験が多いと、付き合っている人がいても、別のセックスの素晴らしさがわかる。それで、それは有利だ。
彼女の言う、「あなたは私の彼氏ではない」という苦情や反対意見を崩す。「あなたが私の彼氏じゃないならやりたくない!」
それはあなたがそうするのを防ぐための話と言える。「じゃ、私は今日からあなたの彼氏になるよ。」と軽く言ってもOK。デートは口約束にすぎず、法的な規制もないので、どちらかが別れたいと思えば終わりなことだ。
「何か新しいことを経験することは重要だ」
「やってみればできる!」
「セックスのためにボーイフレンドになることをどう思う?あなたは寂しいと思うに違いないと感じる」
「常識から解放されて、自分の正直な気持ちに従うことこそが強みだと思う」
「あなたは理由もなく他人の言うことを信じない人ではないか」
彼氏がいるからできないという固定観念を捨てる
「直ぐにそれに持ち込むことはできない。なぜなら彼女にはボーイフレンドがいるから」と考えて弱気になる必要はない。
彼氏がいても連れ出せているなら、彼女は、一緒に遊べると思っている。そして、彼女たちは時々ボーイフレンドとうまくいかないこともある。彼女は浮気性の女性の場合もある。
ボーイフレンドの悪口を言わないことが鉄則
あなたが連れ出した女性が、ボーイフレンドとうまくいっていなかったら、彼女はボーイフレンドのことで文句を言うかもしれない。相槌を打たなくてもいいが、彼女のボーイフレンドの悪口を言うことは全く不可だ。彼女は、彼氏が好きで付き合っていて、自分で選んでいる。誰か他人が、彼女の好きなボーイフレンドについて文句を言うなら、彼女は気分が悪くなる。それは、女性の選択も否定している、ということも、彼女は気分が悪くなる原因となる。
ボーイフレンドがいても平気で浮気できるお酒が好きな女性もいる。その場合、「彼氏がいるからできない」と言ったクレームは、その日にセックスまで至る過程でも、ほとんど出て来ない。表向きにはそういう可能性はあるが、「ばれなければ問題ない」とか「人生にはスパイスが必要...」などと言って、それが起きうることを否定しておく。
お酒が好きな女性は、彼氏がいてもよく浮気をする傾向があると思う。なぜなら、アルコールは私たちの心を大きくし、罪悪感を少なくするからだ。なので、彼氏がいても、心配はないだろう。
彼女にはボーイフレンドがいるが、私たちは気にしない。または、彼女に彼氏がいるかいないかは問題ではない、ということだ。
連れ出す時に「私には彼氏がいる」と言われたら。「私はただ友達になりたい」 、「私はただ5分間だけお酒を飲みたい」 、「彼氏がいてもかまわない。」などと言って連れ出そう。
単語・解説
ritual/[rítʃuəl]リチュアル/名詞、形容詞/儀式、典礼、典礼書、ミサ式次第、式次第、式典の形式、儀式の、祭礼の、儀礼の/Lv.2
broken/[bróukn]ブロークン/形容詞/壊れた、故障した、損傷している、衰弱した、打ちひしがれた、半端の/Lv.0
rejoin/[ridʒɔ́in]リジョイン/名詞、形容詞/～に再び加わる(加入する・参画する)、～を再結合(再接合)させる、再結合する、再接合する、～と返答する、返答する、第二訴答をする/Lv.2
refutation/[rèfjutéiʃən]レフュテイション/名詞/反論/Lv.3
chime/[tʃáim]チャイム/名詞、動詞/鐘・ベルの音、チャイム、ベル、調和、一致、鳴る、響く、鐘を鳴らす、調和する、一致する、奏でる、演奏する、鳴らす、たたく、～を知らせる、～を迎える、～を繰り返す、へり、ふち/Lv.3/chime in/相づちを打つ、同意する、調和する、割って入る、口を挟む、歌に加わる
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